Messenger...lost

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Opened Yahoo messenger after so many months...so many old messages, so many new contacts (all my summer training and old and new B'lore friends and many more) and the computer at the CC hung as soon as I opened messenger; archiving is not on since I use computers at CC and cafes...everything lost, no fault of mine yet can't stop thinking and re-thinking and blaming myself about it.

It was a random event and that's the entire point...random events can wreck you and there is no learning to be incorporated from them...they're random by nature...yet they might leave lasting impressions (for instance the entire QAM3 episode :-))...

How do you deal with random events...accept it as fate...nah...there must be better alternatives...